Talking Stick Customs

"Whoever holds the talking stick has within his hands the power of words.
​Only he can speak while he holds the stick, and the other council members must remain silent.
The eagle feather tied to the stick gives him the courage and wisdom to speak truthfully and wisely.
The rabbit fur on the end of the stick, reminds him that his words must come from his heart." (Locust, 1998)
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• This is an ancient and sacred Native American practice, please treat it as such. The Talking Stick is a method used by Native Americans, to let everyone speak their mind during a council meeting ensuring that all members, who wish to speak, have their ideas heard and valued equally. According to the Indigenous American tradition, the stick was imbued with spiritual qualities that called up the Spirit of their Ancestors to guide them in making good decisions.

• When the Talking Stick is passed to you, you may choose to speak or pass the Talking Stick. If choosing to speak please state the name you wish to go by in our Circle and speak your words. When you are finished with the Talking Stick (speaking or not), please finish by saying "Aho" (meaning: amen or this is my truth) the group responds with “Aho” to affirm we have listened and heard. You may also choose to close your speaking by saying “these are my words” or another variation.​​

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• Brief comfort may be shared, e.g. bow of gratitude, hug, etc. as we enter our social time. Please ask if it is OK to touch one another before reaching out. Touch means many different things to us all.